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A Waning Moon Ritual for Releasing What No Longer Serves Me
August 26, 2026My new moon intention ritual started as a direct response to always feeling like I’d missed the moment. I’d read about full moon rituals for years, but by the time I remembered, the moon was already waning and the energy of the piece felt spent. The new moon, dark and easy to miss entirely if you’re not looking for it, turned out to suit me better — it’s a fresh start, not a culmination, and fresh starts I can plan for in advance.
The ritual is simple: on or near the new moon, I write a short list, usually four or five things, of what I want to plant for the coming month. Not resolutions exactly, more like seeds — specific, small, achievable within four weeks rather than vague yearly ambitions. I light a candle while I write, and afterward I put the list somewhere I’ll actually see it, taped inside a cabinet door or propped against my desk lamp.
Why the New Moon’s Darkness Works in Its Favor
There’s something useful about setting intentions during the moon’s least visible phase. It removes the pressure of grand ceremony that full moon rituals sometimes carry — there’s no dramatic glowing orb demanding a big gesture, just quiet darkness that feels more like a blank page than a spotlight. That mood matches what I’m actually doing: planning, not performing.
I keep the list visible all month, which turned out to matter more than the ritual moment of writing it. Seeing “finish the reading list” or “call my sister more” taped to a cabinet door creates a low-grade, ongoing reminder that doesn’t require remembering a special ceremony date. By the time the next new moon comes around, I can look back honestly at what actually got planted and what didn’t.
Pairing New and Full Moon Practices
This new moon intention ritual pairs naturally with the full moon release ritual for letting go I wrote about earlier — one plants, two weeks later the other releases whatever isn’t serving that plan anymore. Together they’ve given me a monthly rhythm that neither ritual provided fully on its own.

If you’re newer to intention-based practices generally, I’d also point you toward the simple three-minute intention ritual I wrote about for beginners — it’s a good foundation before layering moon phases into the mix. But honestly, you don’t need to track moon phases precisely to get something out of this. I’ve done the ritual a day or two off from the actual new moon plenty of times, and it’s worked exactly the same. The intention behind the intention-setting matters more than the astronomical precision.
Continue Your Moon Practice
Find more phase-by-phase rituals in the Moon Rituals hub, or try this moon water ritual. If you’re tracking your moon work over time, The Complete Book of Shadows has dedicated moon-phase tracking pages. For the astronomy behind the phases themselves, see NASA’s explanation of the Moon’s phases.




